Find a wedding speech example

Original, fictional speeches for every role in the wedding party and both families, each with margin notes that explain what the writing is doing and how to borrow it.

Engraving of a long wedding reception table with candles and champagne coupes

Every example here was written from scratch, with invented people and invented stories. They cover different roles, tones and lengths: funny, heartfelt and short, for couples of every kind, including blended families and two brides or two grooms.

Use them to see how a good speech is built, not as scripts to read out. The stories in them belong to people who don’t exist. Yours will be better, because they’re true.

How to use an example without sounding like one

1. Read one aloud

Pick the example closest to your role and tone, and read it out loud at speaking pace. You’ll hear where the rhythm works and where a line would feel strange in your own mouth.

2. Read the margin notes

Each note explains what a paragraph is doing: setting up a story, turning it sincere, welcoming the other family. Those moves transfer to your speech even when the details don’t.

3. Swap in your own details

Keep the structure and replace every name, story and detail with your own. If you’d rather start from your real stories, the speech writer will shape them into a draft you can edit, time and practice.

Toasts, joint speeches and rehearsal dinner speeches have fill-in outlines on the templates page.